Hi dear… every pair will live a different story, so there’s no perfect answer to this. But if you’re in the season of searching, these are a few things you might want to look out for. And of course, only you can decide which ones matter most to your heart. To know if he’s the one, think about how you feel around him. Not just in the sweet or exciting moments, but in the quiet, ordinary ones too. Do you feel calm and steady? Does your heart feel safe? Or do you often feel unsettled, like the butterflies he brings come with anxiety, or like you’re always unsure or holding back parts of yourself just to be enough. And beyond that, notice what happens to your connection with Allah when he’s in your life. Does being with him help you stay on your deen? Does the way he treats you make it easier to pray on time, to honour your boundaries, to stay soft and sincere? Do you find yourself giving from the right place, not out of fear or pressure, but because you feel at peace with who you are around him? At the end of the day, the one who’s truly written for you won’t pull you away from your Rabb. He’ll quietly lead you back to Him, just by how he carries you.